Age Play & ABDL
Age play is a form of role-playing in which an individual acts or treats another as if they are a different age.
Age play can be sexual or non-sexual, and it can involve any age, from babies to the elderly.
Age play has been around for centuries, and many different cultures have their own traditions of non-sexualised age play, whether as a way to teach children about adult responsibilities, or as a way to express and explore different aspects of one’s personality.
Sexualised age play has historically been equated with paedophilia, but it’s recognised as a legitimate form of sexual expression between consenting adults in kink and BDSM. Age play is also often used as a way to experience a different kind of power dynamic.
It is important to note that Caregiver dynamics and Age Play can be exclusive.
In sexual age play, one partner takes on the role of a child - known as a ‘little’ or ‘baby’ (and possibly a gendered pronoun like ‘girl’ or ‘boy’) - while the other partner takes on the role of a Caregiver - often referred to as ‘Daddy’ or ‘Mommy’. Littles may regress to a childlike state, and enjoy activities such as wearing nappies or diapers, spanking, and feeding. Caregivers provide care and comfort to the little, and may enjoy activities such as disciplining or punishing the little.
Non-sexual age play can involve activities such as playing with toys, dress-up, watching cartoons, or building forts. It can also involve simply acting in a childlike manner, such as speaking in a high-pitched voice or even using baby talk.
Age play can be a fun and exciting way to explore different aspects of sexuality and relationships.
It should be a safe and healthy activity for consenting adults, and should never be used as an excuse for abuse. It's important for all parties involved to be comfortable with the role they are playing.
Adult Baby Diaper Lovers (ABDL)
ABDL is a common acronym for those who enjoy role-playing as babies or toddlers, as well as those who enjoy wearing diapers or nappies.
Although it’s frequently stigmatised, ABDL provides a unique way for kinksters to express themselves and their needs. ABDL communities can be found worldwide, allowing individuals to express their interests openly without shame.
But what are the two roles that make up this type of play?
Adult babies engage in activities and behaviours associated with infancy or toddlerhood, such as wearing baby clothes, using baby bottles and/or dummies/pacifiers, or engaging in play with toys designed for young children.
There is a common theme of regression, comfort, and control found in this type of role. For many adult babies, the appeal lies in the psychological comfort some individuals find in regressing to a childlike state. Adult babies may find a sense of security in being cared for and nurtured. It’s also a form of escapism and stress release.
Diaper lovers take pleasure in wearing diapers, whether for sexual gratification, the physical sensation, emotional comfort, or a combination of reasons. Diaper lovers may or may not also engage in adult baby role-play.
