Common Definitions in Kink & BDSM
Definitions of terms in kink and BDSM are as wide-ranging as kinksters themselves. Finding the answer you need isn’t always easy.
When newcomers join the lifestyle, one of the most common things they ask is “What is...” and there are a whole lot of kinky terms out there. Finding kink definitions and examples can be a real challenge. Below is our ever-expanding list of the most commonly queried terms in kink and BDSM.
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