Let’s get personal.

A lot of kink and BDSM is about learning, and we’re firm believers that one of the best ways to learn is from those that are in the lifestyle.

So if you want to know what it’s really like to be a kinkster, check out the personal accounts and journal entries from others!

Pick one for me

xx 5/3/22 xx 5/3/22

On Being Alone

Being an lone kinkster doesn’t always equate to loneliness.

xx 2/8/22 xx 2/8/22

Possible Long-Term Effects of Orgasm Control

Orgasm control can strengthen the bond between partners in a power dynamic. But what are the risks?

xx 1/29/22 xx 1/29/22

On Being Non-Binary and Kinky

xx 1/15/22 xx 1/15/22

Your Kink. Your Way.

A Daddy, Master, and Leatherman writes about his own approach to kink, and encourages the importance of self-expression in the BDSM subculture.

xx 12/14/21 xx 12/14/21

Kinky Play and Living with PTSD

Can kink and PTSD co-exist? For this kinkster, the answer is yes.

xx 9/14/21 xx 9/14/21

When Breath Play Goes Wrong

xx 7/30/21 xx 7/30/21

“Don’t Kneel Today”

xx 7/10/21 xx 7/10/21

Early Lessons from a Poly Newbie

xx 7/7/21 xx 7/7/21

It Wasn’t Supposed to Be Like This

xx 7/3/21 xx 7/3/21

A Dynamic Marriage

Amy Cookson 6/15/21 Amy Cookson 6/15/21

Unconscious Bias in Kink

xx 6/14/21 xx 6/14/21

There’s an App for That

xx 5/27/21 xx 5/27/21

Freefalling: Abuse in Dynamics

xx 5/13/21 xx 5/13/21

On Being a Trans Woman in Kink

Amy Cookson 4/28/21 Amy Cookson 4/28/21

The Observer

xx 4/18/21 xx 4/18/21

Planning for the End

xx 4/18/21 xx 4/18/21

A Cautionary Tale of Subfrenzy

xx 4/15/21 xx 4/15/21

Your First Munch

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Kynk 101 reserve the right to edit and reformat journals to fit the purpose of the site. We’ll always send you a draft to review beforehand.