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While there's a lot of overlap between the two, here's a simple breakdown of what's different about the terms.
Get stabby with needle play, knife play, and other forms of blood and sharps play.
What is this kind of scene, you might wonder. Well, it’s exactly what it sounds like, and it can get pretty wild.
The Furry subculture is often stigmatised, but who are these artists, writers, and role players and their fursonas?
Learn about the different types of orgasm control; from too many to too few!
Explore D/s dynamics, and the Dominants and submissives that call it their kink.
S&M doesn't have to be a pain in the... Oh, wait. That's kind of the point.
Expecting a baby can lead to a lot of lifestyle changes, but you don't have to stop kink altogether for nine months.
Explore the laws of kink & BDSM in the USA, Canada, the UK, and around the world.
Kink and BDSM can be powerful tools to overcome trauma, but trauma can also have a negative impact on the experience of kink and BDSM.
Breakups are never easy. They can be even harder when they involve a dynamic.
Is subversion of dominance and submission against gendered stereotypes a good thing, and are the portrayals accurate?
Learn about the different roles, labels, and honorifics commonly found in BDSM.
What is impact play, and how does it affect the body? Where should you hit? More importantly, where shouldn’t you?
Age Play sometimes gets a bad rep, but what is it, and how is it different from Adult Baby Diaper Lovers?
In reality, BDSM and kink are not free of predators and dangerous situations. Many trauma survivors find comfort in knowing they aren't alone.
How is BDSM represented in the media? Are film, TV, books, and music responsible for the misconceptions of kink?
Four different forms of gender expression. Four different methods. Four different meanings.
Does erotic hypnosis really work, or is it all a state of mind? Read our detailed considerations for hypnokink.
We offer some do’s and don’t for your first visit to a public kink and BDSM dungeon.
One of the biggest misconceptions of BDSM is that it’s an excuse to abuse someone else. Nothing could be further from the truth.
Check out our guide for the basics on exploring the cell popping fetish.
Scarification requires a considerable amount of aftercare. Learn what you’ll need in this step-by-step guide.
Nonconsensual pornography, known as revenge porn, can happen to anyone. Know what to do if it happens to you.
Triggers & Trauma in Kink and BDSM
Kink and BDSM can be powerful tools to overcome trauma, but trauma can also have a negative impact on the experience of kink and BDSM.
When You Need Help
In reality, BDSM and kink are not free of predators and dangerous situations. Many trauma survivors find comfort in knowing they aren't alone.
BDSM Is Not Abuse
One of the biggest misconceptions of BDSM is that it’s an excuse to abuse someone else. Nothing could be further from the truth.
Revenge Porn
Nonconsensual pornography, known as revenge porn, can happen to anyone. Know what to do if it happens to you.
Hurt Vs Harm
What’s the difference between consensual pain, and outright assault?
Consent Violations & Broken Limits
What happens if you're the victim of a consent violation?
Consent Is Everything in Kink & BDSM
What is consent and how do you know if you have it?