Let’s get personal.
A lot of kink and BDSM is about learning, and we’re firm believers that one of the best ways to learn is from those that are in the lifestyle.
So if you want to know what it’s really like to be a kinkster, check out the personal accounts and journal entries from others!
On Being a Trans Woman in Kink
Be the Dom of Yourself
My Shadow is a Sadist
To Be Seen by a Vampire
The Five Year BDSM Test
The Polish Elephant
I’m Not Your Daddy
I Want To Fuck You Up
The Observer
The Thunder and the Roar
A Brat by Any Other Name
The Top and Bottom Of It
On Becoming a Daddy
Planning for the End
A Cautionary Tale of Subfrenzy
Blacklight Experiment
Your First Munch
Suffering: Emotional Masochism
I’m a Masochist and a Survivor
Six Months from “Never”
A genderqueer D-type comes to terms with their feelings around the traditionally binary nature of being a Daddy.
Not all Daddy’s are the same. Here’s one Dominant’s perspective on the concept of a ‘soft’ Dom.
Orgasm control can strengthen the bond between partners in a power dynamic. But what are the risks?
A Daddy, Master, and Leatherman writes about his own approach to kink, and encourages the importance of self-expression in the BDSM subculture.
In ethical kink, safewords will instantly stop (or slow down) a scene that’s in action. In emotional S&M however, saying a safeword won’t protect a bottom from their own mind.
Erotica and social media like to tell us that BDSM is just kinky sex. But what if it’s more?
She’d never seen boot worshipping in person; turns out she Googled videos to learn about it. She had no idea what she was doing. She was incredible.
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Kynk 101 reserve the right to edit and reformat journals to fit the purpose of the site. We’ll always send you a draft to review beforehand.